How do we fix this?

In most relationships there are arguments which in most cases can be solved. You just have to remember to ask yourself during an argument, is it worth it? The fights that come out the most are things in which aren't important and more than likely are stupid. So when you are arguing jus remember to think about the argument and if this argument could end in a result that you will regret. When arguing with a significant other you don't want to make him/her leave. Communicate about the problems that have occurred or are occurring. THE SILENT TREATMENT DOESNT WORK, this only causes things to boil up even more.