boyfriend/girlfriend-husband/wife

It has been stated that there are different signs that are used in communication that can result in confrontations. Both parties rely on communication to make it through any situation what type of communication varies between parties. Men no matter how long they have known you always expect you to tell them how you are feeling, or what you want. Women see it as their man should know after all this time that they desire something, and what they desire. Men look for a woman to say something women look at how a man says it. So remember in your relationship silly arguments could be caused by reading someones reaction the wrong way, or by interpreting it different then how they intended.

having a bad day

having a bad day can often result in arguments. If no one knows that you are in a bad mood then they could approach you in a way that could upset or frustrate you. If your having an off day you should let someone know before they start messing with you.

fighting

When you get into a fight with someone you will forever believe that you are right and they are wrong. Even if there comes a time you look back and think of the situation and realize that you are wrong you wont admit it.  It seems to be unhuman to admit that you were wrong. Just remember one fight could be a breaking point for you and another. It could end a relationship that maybe you weren't ready to end. Always remember to take yourself out of the situation and see things in both pairs of shoes. When you do this you will balance out the differences and determine if you were really right or wrong. Don't be afraid to admit you are wrong either that is important too . You don't have to bluntly say i'm wrong but simply say i see where you are coming from, or you make a good point.

Stepparents

No one wants to have divorced parents. In my situation i dreaded the fact of seeing my parents with other people. With my parents still being so close i can see them getting back together if it weren't for the fact that they are living with someone else.  I hate when people see me at a restaurant and refer to my stepfather as my dad. It creates tension in my head because I have a father and its not him. This is a situation i know is difficult for a lot of people who are in my shoes. Stepparents are an issue that most people don't address as the problem. My stepfather acts like a little kid when fighting and him trying to have authority over me doesn't go well either. So we have butted heads for a long time, as i get older i just laugh at him and go on with my life. As with my dads girlfriend we just don't talk that often which creates less tension between us.

Divorce

So there are so many situations that can occur between two genders. Lets start by discussing divorce. Some divorces can be cruel and end up with the two parties hating eachother. There are some divorces though that end up being happy. My parents got divorced when i was young. The end result is they are still best friends and they talk in a civilized matter. Divorce can occur for many different reasons.

Excepting

My boyfriend (Anthony) faced a hard loss of his brother. His brother died at the age of three and it has now been eighteen years. In the beginning he felt strange with the fact that his brother died at such a young age and he was still at a young age as well. Staying up with his parents, and having many sleepiness nights was difficult. The hardest part was having to adjust his mind to now only having one brother instead of two. As the accident was explained more to Anthony he was more able to except the fact that it really happened and his brother was no longer with them. It became easier with age to understand and move on. He sees it as  even though his brother isn't physically here he is always watching over his family. The meaning of death became more clear to him with age too. We all pass on at some point in life, but God takes the prettiest flowers to plant his garden with first.

Hardtimes

There are situations that can make or break a person, these situations should be supported by the people around them. People that care about you support you, and help you get through anything. Dealing with death is a situation that people take in different ways. There are different types of coping methods that people take in order to overcome the hardship in which they are faced. It is important to move past and except that the person is gone and continue to enjoy life. It is hard and many people take longer to except than others.